If you haven’t participated in any memes yet, please do!
Memes are a wonderful way to get to know new people in the blogging world, read blogs you were not aware of before, introduce your blog to others and to get in contact with the beautiful people in the blogging world.
Note: If you don’t have time to write separate posts for every meme, why not combine them? For instance, combine Masturbation Monday with Wicked Wednesday, or Food for Thought with Sex Bloggers for Mental Health. You can always support more then one meme with only one of your writings.
On this page I have listed all possible memes in the sex blogging community, including some additional information about those memes:
- Masturbation Monday
- Wicked Wednesday
- Boobday Friday
- Friday Flash
- Food for Thought Friday
- Sinful Sunday
- Kink of the week
- Sex Bloggers for Mental Health
- Erotic Journal Challenge
- Lingerie Is For Everyone
- Tell Me About…
- February Photofest
- Smut Marathon
- Menstruation Matters
- The Menopause Diaries
- Pussy Pride Project
- Sexy Searching
- The Oral Sex Project
- Question Memes
- Scavenger Hunt
- TMI Tuesday
- 101 things in 1001 days
If you know about memes I have not mentioned here, please let me know!
Host: A Dissolute Life Means
Frequency: Weekly on Friday
Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks. No matter what your breasts look like, you are welcome to participate in this meme. The thing is that it’s beautiful to see all the different shaped breasts – round and full, small and pert, big nipples and small nipples – they are all lovely!
If you don’t have a blog, but you want to share your images (with name or anonymous) you can get in contact with Hy and she will post your images on her blog on Friday.
Share your images every Friday.
Host: Molly Moore
Prompt: Mail (if you’re subscribed) and tweets to remind you that submissions are open.
The idea behind e[lust] is to submit one of your post the the roundup. You have to submit your posts between the 1st and the 7th of the month. The e[lust] judges read all the posts and from their votes the top 3 posts for the months are chosen. Molly chooses her favorites too. The list is published roundabout the 15th of the month and you have to publish the list on your blog too and it must be posted on your blog permanently. Submitting your posts to the e[lust] digest definitely gets you more traffic to your blog.
… e[lust] is your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here.
Host: F Dot Leonora
Friday Flash has been taken over by the lovely F Dot Leonora, one of the most supportive people in the sex blogging community.
A prompt is posted on the 23rd of each month, and you will have until the 23rd of the next month to link your story. Friday Flash is all about flash fiction, so come on, share your sexy stories, but no more than 1000 words! As Leonora said:
Well get typing–you will flash me on the 23rd!
Kink of the week
Host: Molly’s Daily Kiss
A topic prompt is posted every two weeks and this opens the discussion about the topic. Whether a kink is yours or not, you can join in with the discussion.
Posts can be photo essays, erotica based on the topic, musings on your own feelings about it, an educational post or posts about your experiences with it – the sky’s the limit, as long as it pertains to the topic listed. I will leave the topic open for the date duration indicated in the post title so have approx a 2 week period in which to write and publish your post..
Host: Kayla Lords
Frequency: Weekly on Monday
Prompt: Yes, but not compulsory
This meme is all about masturbation. Whether you want to write a piece of fiction or about something that really happened, you can share your posts, as long as it contains a masturbation scene, or is so hot that people would want to masturbate. Authors can even link excerpts to their works, as long as the excerpt contains a masturbation scene. And, if you don’t know what to write about, don’t fear! Kayla publishes a photo every week to help you get the (creative) juices flowing.
Pussy Pride Project
Host: Molly’s Daily Kiss
The Pussy Pride Project is an idea of Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss. The name of the meme says it already, but this is what Molly is looking for:
Tell me about your pussy. Below are a list of possible questions you might like to consider, but they are only suggestions to help get you thinking, you don’t have to follow them to the letter, in fact I am hopeful you won’t, what I would really like to see is your own thoughts and feelings about your pussy.
What do you call it? How do you feel about it? Do you accept it as a beautiful part of you or maybe you are not so sure? What do you think about the concept of the ‘perfect vagina’? Would you ever have surgery on it, or maybe you already have, why? Has anyone ever complimented you on your pussy? Do you shave it, or do you like it au natural? Describe it to me?
If you are brave enough please do post a picture of your pussy but if not, then describing it and how you feel about it is just as good. This is not restricted to female participants either, if you are a male blogger then maybe you might have a partner you could feature, and if not then write a piece about what you think is beautiful about pussies.
There are also some other memes that come with a set of questions and they are also quite interesting and fun to participate in:
- 30 days of kink
- 30 days of submission
- 30 days of truth (this is not really a sex related set of questions, but that doesn’t mean that you cannot answer it in a sexy way!)
Host: Pieces of Jade
Frequency: Whenever you want
Imagine you going out to the zoo and flashing your naughty bits for a picture. You know you can be caught, but that’s just part of the thrill. Or you are in the store and you flash there. Or in the lobby of a hotel. Or in the bar or a restaurant. Or on a bridge. In the carwash. Up some stairs.
The possibilities are endless, especially if you get hooked on the thrill of taking those photos or having them taken. Post them on your blog and link them to The Scavenger Hunt.
The Scavenger Hunt is a list to inspire more and better dares for people to flash and show body parts in public places, or at least a place where there is a possibility of being caught by others. You need to have enough of the location in the photo for it to be identifiable and in the photo you do not have to be entirely naked. Just a flash of a nipple or your ‘nether’ bits is enough.
Host: Molly’s Daily Kiss
Frequency: Weekly on Sunday
Prompt: Once a month for the first Sunday
Sinful Sunday is a meme that – the more you participate, the more your experiment with images, the more you dare to show – helps you to build confidence and gets you to know your own body.
Sinful Sunday is ALL about the image. It’s a time and a place to share those sexy/erotic pictures that you have taken.
I hope that Sinful Sunday will encourage all your bloggers out there, regardless of what you blog about to get your cameras out and see if you can take some pictures that fit into an erotic theme. They don’t have to be nakkie, they don’t have to be graphic, although both of those are good too but they do need to have some sort or erotic or sensual quality about them. Maybe a picture of your favourite toy, your underwear draw, an empty bed, a discarded pair of shoes, your legs, your hands, whatever it is, I want you to be creative. Don’t be afraid to play around with your images, turn them black or white, enhance the colour, blur or sharpen then. This is about having fun.
Host: TMI Tuesday Blog
Frequency: Weekly on Tuesday
TMI Tuesday is a meme where you get a set of questions, which you answer and post on your own blog.
A confessional where people come to reveal too much information–sexy secrets, dirty deeds, and more.
Questions are mostly produced by Hedone, but other bloggers can also send in a list of question.
101 things in 1001 days
Day Zero is the creator of the 101 things in 1001 days, which technically isn’t a meme, but has been turned into a kind of a meme by a couple of sex bloggers when they decided to draw up a list of goals. Molly decided to create a page for all the bloggers to link their different posts and pages to.
Are you working on a 101 things in 1001 days list or do you want to create one and start working towards your goals? Then please link your list to Molly’s page and when you blog about your progress, link those posts too.
Do you want to join in with this but have no idea where to start? You might find some inspiration on my first list of 101 things in 1001 days.
Sex Bloggers for Mental Health
Prompt: Yes, but not compulsory
Sex bloggers don’t always write about sex. They also write about other things, such as their mental health and how it influences there lives… and yes, also their sex drives. People who write about sex are not always welcomed in communities where people write about mental health, but for this meme you can openly write about both.
Some bloggers shared about how depression caused a low sex drive. Side effects from medications caused a low sex drive. Grief, suffering a loss of a marriage, spouse or parent caused the loss of interest in sex or sometimes it can cause a person to act out sexually.
I wanted to create a project, movement or meme that stands up for both, being a sex blogger who writes about sex and a mental health blogger someone who writes & shares about mental health. Because sometimes writing about one topic includes the other.
Knowledge is power. The more we share, discuss and listen the better we understand. Learning from each other, giving each other peace of mind. Supporting each other, letting them know they are not alone.
Erotic Journal Challenge
Host: Brigit Delaney
Sometimes a question can spark a series of thoughts which help you discover or realize something about yourself. These weekly questions can help you with that.
Welcome to the Challenge! This is a weekly journal prompt activity I’m starting to help myself explore my own eroticism. Over the past years, I feel like I’ve sort of fallen out of the habit of living an erotic life…or maybe I should just be honest and say, I’ve never really lived a fully erotic life, at least not in the way I’d like to. Getting in deep touch with my own sensuality is something I’ve struggled with. Every so often, I catch a glimpse, and truly get a sense of what it is that turns me on and heats me up. But, it’s like a back warming burner on the stove…easy to forget about, never hot enough, and I’m always just a little afraid to turn it up to high.
Food for Thought Friday
Host: Kilted Wookie
Questions spark your inspiration to talk about sex, about mental health, about every day things.
Each week, on Friday, we will post a new question. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to write a post giving your thoughts/opinions on the topic raised.
There are, of course, no wrong answers.
Host: Molly Moore
Get your creativity on with a month full of sharing your personal photos.
Feb Photofest started back in the 2014. It was a challenge to myself to post an image everyday for the whole month of February. In the course of taking my images I tend to take multiples and I thought this would be a way to show of some of those images that I had yet to share and also to spur me on to take new ones. That year when I started a couple of other bloggers expressed a desire to join in, and so the meme was born. Over the last few years it has got more and more popular with 33 blogs joining in 2018. Can we beat that I wonder?
Host: Marie Rebelle
Prompt: Yes, one for each round of the competition
Are you a writer of erotic stories and do you want to challenge yourself? Then this is the competition you should enter…
Experience has learned that the Smut Marathon is a way to improve your writing, because the assignments tend to pull you out of your comfort zone, which help you to improve your writing or discover new things about your writing. Even experienced writers still manage to improve their writing by participating in the Smut Marathon.
The Smut Marathon is another way to build the community. Writers entertain readers with their stories. Readers vote and try to get their favorite authors through to the next round. And even though it is a lot of work, I really love to see what the writers make of an assignment. Each participant gets the same assignment and no matter how many participants there are, no two stories are the same. That’s so exciting!
There are so many women out there who has problems with menstruation and who have no place to share there experiences with others. This is the place to share.
I wanted to create a space that shows menstruation matters, it is an important subject and shouldn’t be shied away from. Our experiences will help others so I wanted somewhere to collate our experiences.
So tell me about your periods, have they changed over time? Perhaps your birth control has changed them or perhaps you’ve recently given birth and are settling back into a new normal. Not all our experiences are positive and those experiences should be shared too. If you’re a male blogger tell me about your experiences with your partner.
The Menopause Diaries
Host: Marie Rebelle
Just as important as it is to share stories about menstruation, I feel it’s important to talk about menopause too. It’s never the same for two women, and experiences should be shared.
I invite you all to share your menopausal stories for this meme: The Menopause Diaries. Share your experiences, the difficulties you run into, the funny side of menopause. And, this is not a meme exclusive to women. If there are men out there who have sexual partners who suffer from symptoms of (peri)menopause, we would love to hear your stories too.
Host: Marie Rebelle
Many people out there find your blog by using different search terms. That can be indicative of what your readers want to read about, or what subject is popular on your blog.
Search terms; sometimes they make sense, sometimes they are totally random. Sometimes the very randomness can make you laugh, at other times they make you scratch your head and think “how the hell did that end up at my site?”
Celebrating the randomness of the search terms that people use to find our sites is what this monthly meme, #SexySearching, is all about. It’s intended as a fun way to think about what drives people to view what we write.
The Oral Sex Project
Host: Marie Rebelle
If you’re a sex blogger, chances are you have written or will again write about oral sex. This is the place to share those stories.
Do you enjoy cock-sucking or eating pussy? Have you always enjoyed it or did you have to learn to enjoy it? What has changed for you to enjoy it, or maybe you have tried and you still don’t enjoy it? Has someone helped you to find it more enjoyable? In which way were you helped? Are there factors that have an effect on whether you do or don’t enjoy oral sex? Do you have favorite ways of performing oral sex, or receiving it?
Host: Marie Rebelle
Prompt: Yes, not compulsory
Want a place where you can share your stories – whether fiction or real life – or a place where you can share images? Need a prompt to spark your inspiration? Then this is the place for you.
Wicked Wednesday is a place where you can share your wicked sexiness or your sexy wickedness! Be creative and share!
Host: Charlton C. Tod
Every week there’s a prompt for you to spark your inspiration for some smutty stories.
Ladies and gentleman of smut, welcome to this week’s #FantasySmutFriday challenge! Each week, I’ll present a new writing prompt based on a fantasy, and you’ll have one week to craft a flash story(~1,000 words or less) that fulfills this fantasy. The plot, events, characters, and twists are all up to you, so long as it brings the fantasy to life.
Lingerie Is For Everyone
Host: Violet Fawkes
Love sharing images with lingerie or writing about lingerie? Then this is the prompt for you!
No matter your gender or sexuality, no matter the size or shape of your body, no matter your ethnicity, if you love lingerie, you are welcome to contribute to this link-up. Your lingerie doesn’t need to be fancy or expensive, if it’s an undergarment that you feel good in, that’s all you need. Likewise, if you’re less about pictures and more about words, written pieces that center on lingerie are accepted too – opinion pieces, fiction, and poetry are all welcome. Sexy, silly, provocative, revealing, there are no limits – just fun, encouragement, and community.
Tell Me About…
Host: The SafeworD/s Club
Are you in a power exchange relationship, or interested in one, then this is a place for you to share your thoughts or find information:
Tell Me About… is a brand new fortnightly writing prompt, designed to promote writing on topics relevant to Dominance and submission.
Hosted by The SafeworD/s Club, we hope to share and learn by creating a resource which is a collection of relevant writing from individual blogs.
You may wish to visit as a reader looking for writers who are sharing experiences you can relate to, but we really hope that you will be encouraged to share your own views, ideas and thoughts with us here.
© Marie Rebelle